If the latter be true, we will be winsome …

Uh oh. November 2nd is looming. That means POLITICS and political discussions (arguments / FIGHTS) for many people.

Time to re-read Roger Nicole’s “Polemic Theology” (What do I owe the person who differs from me?) and also re-listen to Tim Keller’s Arguing About Politics.

Let me tempt you with just a snippet from Dr. Nicole’s article (emphases added):

“Perhaps the most important consideration for the Christian is to remain aware at all times of the goal to be achieved. It is the consistent perception of this goal that will give a basic orientation to the whole discussion: Are we attempting to win an argument in order to manifest our own superior knowledge and debating ability? Or are we seeking to win another person whom we perceive as enmeshed in error or inadequacy by exposing him or her to the truth and light that God has given to us?

If the former be true, it is not surprising if our efforts are vain: we should be like physicians who take care of patients simply in order to accredit some pet theory. If the latter be true, we will naturally be winsome. This will increase our patience when the force of our arguments does not seem to have an immediate effect. This will challenge us anew to understand those who differ in order to present the arguments that are most likely to be persuasive to them. God has appointed all of us to be witnesses to the truth. (John 1:7; Acts 1:8 ) God is the one who can and will give efficacy to this witness. We should never underestimate His ability to deal even with those who appear most resistant …

A Christian in carrying on discussions with those who differ should not be subject to the psychology of the boxing ring where the contestants are bent upon demolishing one another. Rather “The Lord’s servant must not quarrel: instead, he must be kind to everyone, able to teach, not resentful. Those who oppose him he must gently instruct, in hope that God will grant hem repentance leading them to a knowledge of the truth, and that they will come to their senses…” (2 Timothy 2:24-26).”